Marriage
"Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections!" This statement does NOT apply to Christians who are married in the Holy Spirit as these marriages don't operate in the flesh. We marry someone because we love WHO they are in the Lord or simply in Obedience to the Lord for what ever reason God has for it. Our Love is a Love flowed from God through us to them.
You don't ever marry someone to change who they are if they truly walk in the Spirit, God will handle that if it needs to be done even though HE may use those who truly walk in the Spirit as a tool. They will be healed and corrected provided they endure and don't run away and rebel against God. We should always look at who we are in Christ and who He is in us and let God handle everything. If we walk in the Spirit, our fleshly anger will not cause us to "fall out of love" with someone that God has flowed his love through for us to love. The Spiritual Person may however at the leading of the Lord separate themselves from the disorderly and become divorced by the state law, but by God's law the woman is bound as long as the husband is living and living is in the Spiritual realm. God's law in this does not apply to marriage or divorce of the heathen only man's law applies then. Remember to OBEY the authority which has the rule over you. To the truly Spiritual One God's Law is the authority, to the fleshly minded ones the Governors of this world make the laws by which they should live. God's word is clear on this issue to those who have ears to hear.